Identifying Your Needs – How to Understand and Prioritize Your Emotional Health

Identifying Your Needs – How to Understand and Prioritize Your Emotional Health

“For years, I thought being a good partner, friend, or employee meant putting my own needs last. I told myself I was being selfless. But quietly, I felt more and more depleted—and I couldn’t understand why.” If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

How to Practice Self-Compassion: The Key to Healing and Growth

How to Practice Self-Compassion: The Key to Healing and Growth

“I thought being hard on myself would make me better.”
I hear this all the time. Clients often believe that self-criticism is what keeps them sharp, driven, or emotionally contained. The assumption is that if they just push a little harder, feel a little worse, or hold themselves to impossibly high standards, they’ll not only feel okay—they’ll do better, achieve more, and finally become the version of themselves they think they should be.

When Knowing Doesn’t Heal: How to Process Emotions & Why Insight Falls Short

When Knowing Doesn’t Heal: How to Process Emotions & Why Insight Falls Short

Have you ever found yourself saying, “I know why I feel this way, so why can’t I change it?” You might be able to pinpoint the root of your anxiety, overwhelm, or emotional patterns, yet despite all this insight, nothing seems to shift. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many people intellectualize their emotions, talking about them without actually feeling or processing them. While insight is valuable and necessary for self-growth, it’s not always enough to shift how you feel.

Healthy Relationships: Insights from a Therapist Working with Domestic Violence Survivors

Healthy Relationships: Insights from a Therapist Working with Domestic Violence Survivors

If you’ve ever felt unsure about whether your relationships are truly healthy, you’re not alone. Many people struggle to identify what’s normal versus what’s harmful. By understanding the foundations of healthy relationships—mutual respect, boundaries, and self-care—you can create meaningful, secure connections that support your well-being.