“I thought being hard on myself would make me better.”
I hear this all the time. Clients often believe that self-criticism is what keeps them sharp, driven, or emotionally contained. The assumption is that if they just push a little harder, feel a little worse, or hold themselves to impossibly high standards, they’ll not only feel okay—they’ll do better, achieve more, and finally become the version of themselves they think they should be.
Learning how to identify and process your emotions allows you to make better decisions, connect with others more authentically, and feel more at ease in your own life. High IQ might get you in the door, but high EQ is what gets people to trust, respect, and stay connected to you.
As a licensed psychotherapist who is trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) and prioritizes trauma-informed care for my clients, I’m dedicated to helping people create meaningful change in their life in a way that feels safe for them. I specialize in...
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